Is It Really Easier to Find a New Job When You Have a Job? | Job Search Radio

One of the great beliefs job hunters have is that it is easier to find a job if you already have on. On today’s podcast, I answer this question and explain why I believe what I do.

If you have a question about job hunting, email me at JobSearchRadio@gmail.com. I can’t answer every question . . . but you knew that!

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Is it really easier to find a new job when you have a job?

Great question!  It really challenges the beliefs of the job-search system, both from an employer perspective and from a job perspective.  So let me pause and answer the question.

The answer to me is, “No.”  I know that will be a surprise for many of you because it is 1 of the great assumptions of job hunting.  Let me dissect it.

If you don’t have the skills to do a job, whether you are working or not, you are not going to be hired.  If you have the skills and aren’t working, you can find a job in the same is obviously true. If you are working. 

The real issue is around the negotiation phase.  In certain markets and in certain times, the issue may be, “Why were you fired and not the person 2 desks over from you?”  Employers start to think, “Maybe this individual was not the most productive person” versus the least political individual.  Or, the one with the least seniority.  Seniority is always the easiest way to cop to an explanation as to why you are the one chosen during particular down markets.

Employers Like a Bargain!

In average-to-good markets, the issue will come down to the negotiation phase.  Employers think they can get a “bargain” if you are out of work.  That’s because they think you are “desperate.”  That’s their thinking.  You are desperate.  You need a job.  You want a job.  You’ll take almost anything to get back to work.  The longer you are out of work, the more likely it is you are to behave that way, right?  After all, you’ve been out of work for 6 months. You been collecting unemployment insurance or whatever the social program is in the country you reside in.  They think they can get you inexpensively, which, in some respects, makes you more attractive. But, in other ways, it’s harder on you because you have to compromise more. Your ego is at stake. 

It’s hard for you to say to someone, “We want you to start this new position and we think you’re terrific.  We think you’re wonderful and we are going to pay you less than your previously earning.

On the subconscious level for the individual, they are shocked and find it difficult to say, “Yes.”  Being out of work is a layer of complexity to the search.  You have less wiggle room on the negotiation side because firms will often make job offer, suggesting to you, “Without you making a job offer and give you 2 choices.  Leave it or take it. Your choice.  We don’t really care which one you make. Because there are another 15 people at our door who want this job if you want it.

That’s the real issue with being out of work.  Your bargaining becomes limited.  Where you can negotiate if the numbers are off.

In other climates, it is how you are perceived as someone who has chosen to be out of work.  Why that was and they are concerned about you, as a result.

1 of the little trick questions they’ll ask him to those conditions is, “Where have you had interview so far?  Where else are you pending?

If you say nowhere, their reaction is to say, “Okay, we can make him a low-ball offer because she doesn’t have any choices.” 

I remember, when I 1st saw it as a recruiter, I interviewed this 1 person in my 2nd week in the job and that was trained to ask the question, “Where have you been on interviews before?”  The guy read off a list of 20 places that he’s been to the have all turned them down and there was a message in that, too.

Just recognize that the impact of being laid off, the impact of being out of work can adversely affect you very easily.  If you are working, it takes away a whole layer to the situation that puts you on a more even playing field. When you are negotiating.

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Do you think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com is there to change that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

Please give “Job Search Radio” a great review in iTunes. It helps other people discover the show and makes me happy!

How to Change Careers Part 4

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I discuss another step in your journey to change careers… This one is focused on you and the life that you want to live.

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This is part 4 in my series about changing careers. I hope some things had been percolating so far but, if not go back and dig deeper. The idea behind all of this is to get clear about some things that you are weighing about what’s going to be important to you in your career ending your life.

Your life is the next part of this because we can’t partialize or divide work and life as distinctly as some think we should. How is that working for you to make those different things? 

I think that is all part of the same thing which is the life that you live. So I’m going to invite you to look at a few different things today and, again, as always, I want you taking down notes and spending time with this.

The 1st thing I want you to look at is your health. How are you physically at this point? I said in other places that one day I woke up and, try though I might, my weight got away from me. One day I woke up and weight and saw numbers on the scale that I never seen before

I have been working on my health, working with the trainer and that’s become really important to me… To get my health in shape and be fit. As a matter of fact, this morning I had the pleasure of my wife say I look younger!

What kind of environment do I want to live in? Is it an urban area? Is it a rural area?

If it is urban, what type of neighborhood? Where is your ideal place to live in the world? After all, these days, people can do work from a lot of places in the world.

What kind of income do you need?

What you need to support yourself and your family?

What kind of goals do you have for your future?

Is your family important to you? I’m not just speaking about your immediate family. I’m speaking about your extended family. Aging parents, for example or maybe you are the aging parent and you want to be closer to your kids. How does that fit in? Do you need to have some flexibility in order to spend time with them? Do you need time to go to the kids soccer games?

What sort of personal development goals do you have? We tend to focus on work so much that we tend to forget that we can be students in our lives, too. For us to really excel, we need to learn and grow in order to master our circumstances.

These are all things you need to sit down and think about. Take at least an hour with this. Seriously. Minimally, an hour with this exercise. Learn your lessons from it and apply it to your life.

 

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Do you really think employers are trying to help you? You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell you as much as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com is there to change that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn http://bit.ly/thebiggamehunter

You can order a copy of “Diagnosing Your Job Search Problems” for Kindle for $.99 and receive free Kindle versions of “No BS Resume Advice” and “Interview Preparation.”

Another Job Search Lesson from “The Godfather”| No BS Job Search Advice Radio

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter offers another pearl of wisdom from “The Godfather” to teach you about loyalty to your employer.

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Do you really think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell you as much as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com changes that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

You can order a copy of “Diagnosing Your Job Search Problems” for Kindle for $.99 and receive free Kindle versions of “No BS Resume Advice” and “Interview Preparation.”

Don’t forget to give the show 5 stars and a good review in iTunes

Negotiating for Introverts and Others: Negotiation Basics | Job Search Radio

Although introverts are particularly at risk in a negotiation, EVERYONE seems to think they are at a disadvantage. Here are the basics for entering a negotiation.

In the show, I mentioned that I would include a link to 1 of my videos called, “The Easiest Way to Negotiate Higher Salary for Yourself.” This is a link to the video.

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Today, I want to talk to introverts and others about entering into a negotiation.  For everyone, negotiation is oneof those uncomfortable processes., Where organizations clearly create the impression that they have an upper hand.  In fact, you have an equal handedness, too.  The hand that you have in this is the ability to say, “No.”  At the end of the day, that is incredibly powerful because it is the final position.  It’s your choice, too.So, I want you to remember that as you enter into a negotiation – – that you don’t have to be steamrolled.  You don’t have to be manipulated or abused.

How Does Negotiation Start?

Negotiation starts off with you and understanding what your true value is.  That’s the important starting place for every negotiation.  How do you determine that?  There are any number of surveys that exist they give you her range.  Frankly, most of those are irrelevant.

Frankly, I would go on to LinkedIn and reach out to someone who works for the firm in a role the kind of reads like yours will be and say, “Hey, look, I’m up for job at your firm.  This is what I do.  Your background looks pretty similar. Can I ask, when you joined, will be required for?”  You’d be surprised at how often people want to help.  You need to be able to obtain data to substantiate your case.  In the negotiation, if they try to come in lower than that number, you can say, “I started polling people in your organization and several were hired in a higher level than what you’re talking with me about.  At least meet that number.”

“It seemed like one person got such and such; another one God different number.  At least meet the average of  Y.

It has to be done in a polite way, but just present the numbers to them.  That’s the research part of this.  Knowing what this firm normally pays people, not the entire industry, because those numbers are skewered high and low.  Let me give you an example.  You start with Facebook (a former startup firm) in a technology role, in Silicon Valley, you start with the company that you have never heard of and look up the role for salary range for a role like yours, sometimes they are lower this for the startup, sometimes they are lowered with an equity position. You need to get concrete numbers.  So the starting place is with your research.

The Second Step

Next is preparing and practicing.  You need to be able to hit your points that you need to address in the course of the negotiation if they come in with a number that is “off.”

Practice is so important in this process and this is ideal if you practice with a practice payout.  This should be someone who can give you feedback on how it sounds listening to you.  You don’t have to look at them.  After all, if this is a phone negotiation. You are not going to be seeing them.  However, what you want to be doing is understanding how you are heard.  That’s the important thing. Now you are heard.  

If the negotiation will be by Skype, you want to see them because they are going to see you.  No matter how it is, you need to prepare and practice what you are going to say and how you are going to say it.

The Most Challenging Part

Lastly, and this may be the hardest of all, in the practice, in the preparation, I hope you overcome your fear of asking.

This is true of anyone. It is not just an “introvert problem.”  A lot of people are afraid to ask for what they deserve.  Part of that is lack of preparation.  Part of that is lack of research or some combination of both.  You need to be willing to ask the questions to insist upon what you want AND be prepared to walk away if you are not happy.

Before just spontaneously doing that, I want to encourage you to say something to the effect of, “I would like to think about our conversation before coming to a final decision.  I will be back to you tomorrow, but I just need a little bit of time to consider.

You may stick to the same decision that you make in the course of the conversation.  You may change your mind. You are entitled to do both.  However, I want to encourage you to take a little bit of time.

Now they may say, “So, what are your thoughts?”

Your answer should be, “I am not sure. I have trade-offs to evaluate and I have to weigh them.

In a case like that, I want you to consider that Paul was in there that doesn’t give them anything other than that you are reluctant to say yes.  Thus, when you come back to them the next day as you promised, I want you to have watched my video called, “The Easiest Way to Negotiate a Higher Salary for Yourself.”  In the video, I go through a method that is very very gentle and encourages them to increase the offer without making any threats.

The 1st part of the video is at the time that you get the offer. That may not be relevant here.  However, I want to encourage you to watch that video, pull out the parts that are relevant, practice, and I’m sure it will wind up being helpful.

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Do you think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday. The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com is there to change that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

Please give “Job Search Radio” a great review in iTunes. It helps other people discover the show and makes me happy!

Job Search Lessons from Game 7 of the 2016 World Series (VIDEO)

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There are lessons we can apply to job search from Game 7 of the 2016 World Series.

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I’m here today with job search lessons from the World Series. 1st of all, congratulations, Cubs fans. You can waiting a long time for this.

Here are a few things that came out in the aftermath.

I would start off with the big one… The big take away from the series…

After the game, Jon Lester was talking about “the curse.”  Lester came in during the middle of the game to pitch relief, something he hasn’t done a long time, talked about the curse.  He said, “The curse is an excuse that you use for why you were not good enough.”

Catch that one.

The excuse that you’re not good enough.

For you as a job hunter, you are going to be turned down for jobs.  If you’re in business, there are deals that you are working on their not going to come through. Then, you blame other people, you blame circumstances… You blame things.  You just aren’t good enough and need to get better. You have practice to do.

If you’re in business, you have work to do to figure out what it was in your proposal didn’t work for the client.

Maybe it’s you and you didn’t sell well enough. Just recognize that there are excuses that you use. When you stop and think about it, you can buy the bull, because at the end of the day, you have to live with the consequences and need to get better.

If your job hunting, were in business for yourself, you need to practice your presentation until your phenomenal at it, so no one can turn you down. You can learn. You can get better.

Teams. Don’t win the World Series without talent and most major league teams have great talent on their roster but they need to work together in order to become champions.

Another thing that happens is that people get inspired.

Here are The Cubs, down 3 games to one and they are working their way back. Grinding. They are trying to win each inning in order to win a game. Inning by inning, working hard.

We get to Game 7, they are up big early, the score is tied, they are losing and they need a reminder. The reminder from Jason Hayward reminded them of how good they were all season… You can read the story online or in a newspaper.

The fact of the matter is that you are going to be turned down at times and you will need to suck it up, learn your lessons, know that you are good and move on.

There is no disrespect intended for the Indians. They played a great series. This is just about The Cubs here. Sometimes, there was a small difference between winning and losing.

There are stories about Anthony Rizzo playing “The Rocky” music for the last three games. “Rocky” is the story about the difference between being a club fighter and a champion.  It’s hard work and, in 1 of the movies, they use the example of

Rocky training for a fight and, as presented in the movie, this superhuman Russian character played by Dolph Lundgren training for his fight.

There are small differences between being a champion and coming in 2nd. The Cubs played to win. They pulled it together. There is a small difference between winning and losing. Game 7. 8-7 final score in extra innings.

What can you take from this game?

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Do you think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell you as much as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com changes that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

You can order a copy of “Diagnosing Your Job Search Problems” for Kindle for $.99 and receive free Kindle versions of “No BS Resume Advice” and “Interview Preparation.”

 

 

You Have to Disclose a Conviction | No BS Job Search Advice Radio

Jeff Altman, The Big Game  Hunter discusses telling the truth about a conviction on an employment application when you apply for a job.

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I want to have a candid conversation with you. If you are someone who has a criminal record, dealt with the rest and talk with you about how to complete applications.  I’m reminded of this by recent story from someone who represented for job who told me about a conviction he had years ago and the recent arrest or he accepted a plea deal even though he said he wasn’t involved with what was done, but got caught up in the events and his attorney advised him to accept the plea and know that within 6 months to be expunged from his record.

Now, he’s up for job and has to complete an application and is asked the question, “Have you been involved with a dishonesty that has not been expunged from your record yet?”  My advice to him was to disclose it.  Write a lengthy explanation for what occurred. Don’t line.

Why?  It’s very simple.  This is a firm that, like many, does background check and, in doing a background check, if they for the inconsistency with what you told that, namely, you have been involved in such an episode, the reality is that America hire you.  If they find that out after you’ve been hired there going to fire you.

I’ve been involved with way too many circumstances where companies have found the outpost employment than a reference, a college degree, a whole host of things are falsified.  The criminal stuff is always the most egregious to employer.

Imagine for 2nd you were hired for job and they find out a few weeks after you join that you were involved with some version of crime.  They let you stay on board and while you are a stockbroker, for example, you still grandma’s life savings or trade them down to nothing.  A lawyer get someone from the firm on the stand and goes, “You knew he was a lawyer and this is what happened!  You tolerated.”  Your insurance company won’t pay. There out the money.  They just can’t accept the fact that someone who lied to them is on board.

In other words, you don’t want to be greeted by security at your desk, holding a box for you have all your stuff and escorted out the door.  How do you explain that to your family?  How do you explain that you kids or the friends or the parents that you got fired because you lied on an application?

Don’t do it.

If they’re not going to hire you, better off not to get fired after 2, 4 or 6 weeks and have the same result that you’re out of work.  Except, that’s worse.  After all, how do you explain that to the next employer.

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Do you think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell you as much as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com changes that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

You can order a copy of “Diagnosing Your Job Search Problems” for Kindle for $.99 and receive free Kindle versions of “No BS Resume Advice” and “Interview Preparation.”

Don’t forget to give the show 5 stars and a good review in iTunes

Working With a Recruiter | Job Search Radio

People have silly ideas about recruiters and what they do. Let me clear things up.

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Do you think employers are trying to help you? You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com is there to change that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

Please give “Job Search Radio” a great review in iTunes. It helps other people discover the show and makes me happy!

How to Change Careers Part 3

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This is the 3rd in my series of videos about changing careers focused on helping you identify what you want.

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This will continue the various steps I teach in order to evolve. Again, take out your iPad, pen and paper, whatever you like to write with and save , and get to a place where you have no distractions.

This 1 is a difficult exercise.

The question I’m going to ask you to think and write about is, “What’s going to be important to you in your next career?  What will you need to see or hear in order to believe it is a good choice for you?

Sounds easy, doesn’t it?

Usually, however, people define things by what they don’t want to do. They look at their current work and start thinking about the list of, “No’s” that come from the current work. By that I mean, “I don’t want to do this,” or, “I don’t want to do that.”

I will use myself as an example. After many years of doing recruiting, I have moved into coaching and 1 of the things I didn’t like about recruiting was the amount of multitasking (there’s multitasking in every profession but in recruiting, is obscenely heavy multitasking) with constant interruptions.  I became frustrated by that. So I start the think of things that would have less multitasking and fewer interruptions.  You are going to have your list of items that you are not going to want to do.

I want you to pause now and start working on your list.

 

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Do you really think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell you as much as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com changes that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

You can order a copy of “Diagnosing Your Job Search Problems” for Kindle for $.99 and receive free Kindle versions of “No BS Resume Advice” and “Interview Preparation.”

 

“You Don’t Have a Lot of Experience With . . . | No BS Job Search Advice

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter explains how to respond when an interviewer says, “Gee, you don’t seem to have a lot of experience with . . . “

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Today, I’m going to talk with you about 1 of those tough interview that is actually designed to rescue you.  The question is (it’s actually more of a statement, then the question) goes something like this… They are staring at your resume, looking very seriously at it and say

Gee.  You don’t seem to have a lot of experience with…

If it is something specific like a specific type of technology or some aspect of accounting or engineering. You can kind of get slammed. For example, in tennis, you can hit an overhead and immediately defeat your opponent.  There’s no retaliation for it.  That’s what they’re really begging you for at this point.  If you respond by saying, “It’s true. I don’t have a lot of experience with…” You’ve shot yourself in the foot and can kiss the interview goodbye. You’re not getting the job.

It is like an earlier video that I did about the 2 dirty words of job interviewing. The 2 dirty words are “only,” (as in ‘I’ve only done this’) and “light”(as in,’ I have laid experience with…’). It says, “I don’t know anything about this. Can we go on to something else?”

Here, with this question, they’re giving you an opportunity.  Take it.  Tell them exactly what you know and what you’ve done.  Why you claim the experience.  For example, a movie using IT example, “Gee, you don’t seem to have a lot of experience with C#.”  At this point, you would talk about how you got your training C#, how in previous jobs. You did work with C#, you work very closely with the manager you reported to so that you have very good insights. So, even though it’s not 10 years of experience with the technology, you have good underpinnings and solid experience with it. You talk with him about what you’ve done. Yada yada yada.

If you are in accounting, you talk about how you work with your manager on certain functions and were able to deliver things on time and within budget. And, yes, you had some support, but, there was a lot of support.

Basically, what you are doing is taking the opportunity to talk about what your training is, talk about your experience, speak with confidence and certainty about what you’ve done, looking him square in the eye, not backing down and hitting that overhead slam back at them and winning the point.

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Do you really think employers are trying to help you?

You already know you can’t trust recruiters—they tell you as much as they think you need to know to take the job they after representing so they collect their payday.

The skills needed to find a job are different yet complement the skills needed to do a job.

Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been a career coach and recruiter for what seems like one hundred years.

JobSearchCoachingHQ.com changes that with great advice for job hunters—videos, my books and guides to job hunting, podcasts, articles, PLUS a community for you to ask questions of PLUS the ability to ask me questions where I function as your ally with no conflict of interest answering your questions.

Connect with me on LinkedIn

You can order a copy of “Diagnosing Your Job Search Problems” for Kindle for $.99 and receive free Kindle versions of “No BS Resume Advice” and “Interview Preparation.”

Don’t forget to give the show 5 stars and a good review in iTunes

Want to Start a Business? Don’t Have Time? Here’s How. (VIDEO)

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Jeff Altman,The Big Game Hunter explains how to figure out how to get the time to start that business that you want to start.

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I want to talk with you if you’re someone who’s been interested in starting a business, you are working full time, you don’t feel like you have time.  I want to help you figure out a way where you can get your time and be able to do what you want to do.

If you wait around to when you have a few minutes, you’ll never do it.  Experience tells me that most people won’t do it. If they wait to find the time to do it.  Here’s what you need to do.

  1. Create a 24 hour a day grid/7 days a week with 15 minute intervals.  Track how you currently spend your time.  This way, you have a view of it.  Start by tracking the time.
  2. Create a 2nd grid.  Redo your time grid for how you needed to be.  For example, if you work all day and are watching cable TV at night, that can be time for you.  You can take that out of the schedule.  Decide what time is not negotiable.  For example, you sleep or go to work, your commuting time, you do your job, these are nonnegotiable times.  To be clear, I want you to be great at your current job.  These all go into this grid.  You want to spend time with your wife, husband, partner and/or kids … put these on the grid.  You want to go to different events that the kids do.… These go on the grid.  These are all scheduled in.  You want to be there for bath time with the kids. This goes on the grid  there are things that you will discover from the 1st read that you can take out from the 2nd 1.For example, if you are someone with lots of alerts on your phone, get rid of all your alerts.  Just login and see what messages you have.  Same thing with text messages.  You don’t need to respond to an text message immediately.  Turn off the alerts; batch respond.  This way, you are not being interrupted.  If you are finding it hard at work to avoid responding when someone asks, “Did you see this show,” maybe what you want to do is pull out cable and/or pull out Netflix so that this way you start on your time again, not Netflix.

You see where I’m going with this?  You need to own your time I can then start plugging in your work.  Like I said, if you need to turn off cable, if you need to turn off Netflix, do it.  Not only will you get the time back, but you will save some money, too.

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Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter has been coaching people to play their professional and personal games BIG for what seems like 100 years.

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